Turning FORTY was quite the milestone for me. I thought about it all year long, not only because I’ve always been told I look young and couldn’t wait to say “I’m actually 40!”, but because I knew it was a marker of life.
I remember 40 seeming so old, so already done, but now I realize it is in so many ways the best time to get started. What a peace of mind that comes; a badge of honor earned.
I decided to write a list of my lessons that lead to forty….
FORTY FAVORITES
- It’s ok to be perfectly imperfect
- We always have a choice
- Forgiving frees the soul
- Pizza is ALWAYS better with a diet coke
- We can choose JOY
- There is such a thing as retail therapy
- Sometimes the hardest thing, is also the right thing
- We can be BRAVE
- Gluten-free will never taste like the real thing
- It’s ok to get lost in the Hallmark Channel
- We can be TRUE
- Commit to growth in every relationship
- People really do the best they can with what they have
- Our children are our greatest legacy
- Our diagnosis is NEVER our destiny
- High expectations are ok, people will rise to them
- We can be BOLD
- Not everyone will always understand
- Our main responsibility is to train the hearts of our children
- Be GRATEFUL..for all of it
- You’ll never regret taking the high road
- We are never too old for Pink Bubblegum Ice cream
- We can be FEARLESS
- Glitter makes everything better
- God qualifies the called
- Everyone wants to feel important
- Suicide isn’t selfish
- NO really can be a complete sentence
- A smile makes everyone more beautiful in an instant
- Self-love is always #1
- If they gossip to you, they’ll gossip about you
- Preserve the relationship over the business
- Income follows personal growth
- A beautiful sunset reminds us of the reality of Heaven
- Not every friendship will last a lifetime, but every one will teach a lesson
- Sometimes a $5 coffee is worth it
- Work ethic cannot be bought
- Every choice has a consequence, good or bad
- You can’t reach GREAT if you settle for GOOD(enough)
- Gummy bears can fix anything… (or anything gummy)
- PRAY often, about everything